Tuesday, May 02, 2006

5S in a guy

Read from Yunny's nickname in msn today: 5S in a guy - Sensitive, Sincere, Sensual, Sexy and Stylish.

Thought that sensual and sexy are similar so decided to change sexy to smart.

Here's my take on what it means to possess the 5S...

1) Sensitive: A guy has to know when his lady is in a lousy mood and takes the initiative to cheer her up. Being sensitive also means daring to reveal his feelings and not be afraid to cry when he feels like it. Of course not as often as a gal lah...hehe.

2) Sincere: A guy has to mean what he says...don't give praises and compliments for the sake of doing them. It is super fake and gals can spot the difference. Being sincere also makes us feel that we are treasured and not taken for granted.

3) Sensual: A guy with confidence and charisma is the most sensual to me. Of course we are not referring to his over the top ego but rather his quiet confidence that he knows what he is doing and what he aims to achieve. Charisma, however, i believe is in a person, either u have it or u don't. Something like creativity...cannot be taught.

4) Smart: Besides being street-smart, a guy has to have substance...without brains and all brawn is simply a himbo who won't help to keep a gal's attention for long...who will want the same poster boy when she can simply select new ones from a couple of fashion magazines?

5) Stylish: Although some people are not blessed with good looks however, knowing how to dress well will help take care of that. It will also help build up a person's confidence by knowing what looks good on you and what is simply a big NO-NO.

Well think that's about all I can write for now...in the meantime will think of something to write for the female side.

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